A Traditional English Countryside Wedding with a Floral Fabric Inspired Theme

This is one of those simply perfect weddings, where you just want to dive in and devour all the details. Lovely Amy read Before the Big Day in the run up to her wedding, and along with her husband Alex, they created the most amazing array of pretty DIY'd decorations. Amy works in interior design, so she was very keen on the visual side of the wedding planning, and started with a scrapbook full of sketches, pictures and fabrics. In fact the wedding colour palette was entirely themed on a tiny scrap of fabric - a pretty blue and green floral print on a cream background. The crafty projects are never-ending! Along with her mum, Amy made 250 meters of double sided bunting {now available to hire!}, dried all the confetti in their airing cupboard, and picked and arranged all the marquee flowers. Meanwhile Alex's mum made the fudge favours, and not to be outdone, Alex made the chalkboard table-plan. There's so many stealworthy ideas to choose, but my favourites have to be Amy's stunning self-designed wedding gown, her adorable traditional pageboys' outfits {in knickerbockers made by her mum!}, and Amy's family jewellery - some serious rocks!! Huge thanks to Kate Murrell Weddings for her stunning pictures of the day....more to come in Part 2.


We got married on the 27th July at St Michael and All Angels in Withyham, in Sussex, and we hosted our reception in my parent’s garden ten minutes away from the church.


As I work in interior design I was very into the visual side of the wedding planning, and I had a scrapbook full of sketches, pictures and fabrics! I wanted to go for a very traditional English country wedding look, with bunting, a pole marquee, trestle tables and country garden flowers. 



It was actually a small scrap of fabric which inspired my theme, a pretty blue and green floral print on a cream background, and I thought these would be the perfect colours for an English country wedding!


I had a very clear idea of what style of dress I wanted, and although I spent a day in London with my Mum and bridesmaids trying on some dresses for fun, I always knew I wanted to have it handmade, so that I could design every detail myself. 


The first place I went was Emma Tindley Couture, in my local town of East Grinstead. Emma was so lovely and seemed to completely get what I wanted, so after seeing a few London dressmakers, I decided to go for her. It was so lovely to have it made locally, as my Mum was able to come to all my fittings. 


I went for a corseted top, with a sweetheart neckline, and an A-line skirt with pleats, a bow at the back, and quite a long train. I wanted to be covered up for the church so I had a removable boat-neck lace top, which I took off for the evening, and added beaded lace straps and a sparkly belt. I was quite involved with the process of choosing the fabrics and after a lot of searching I found the perfect lace, but it was too white! So, much to Emma’s horror I dyed it in a bath of tea to make it creamier! 


In the end Emma was glad that I took the plunge, as it worked really well. and matched the Duchess satin perfectly! Emma did the most fantastic job and my dress was more beautiful than I could ever have imagined. She also made the whole process so much fun, and she even came and got me into my dress on the day!


My shoes were dark ivory satin to match my dress, with a peep toe and diamante buckle. I had my hair and make-up done by a lovely lady called Natalie. She and Harriet, who she brought a long to help, were fantastic and such a calming influence on the day! She somehow managed to achieve the radiant bridal look despite the fact that I had not slept a wink....quite literally!


For our flower girl and page boy, I wanted to go for a very classic look with pale blue knickerbockers and a cream shirt for the page, and a cream silk dress with a pale blue sash for the flower girl. Ever mindful of the budget, my Mum actually made the dress and trousers herself, I was so impressed with how professional they looked!


For my two grown-up bridesmaids, I also wanted something quite classic in pale blue, and though originally I thought I would get them made, I ended up finding some beautiful cowl neck dresses from Dessy. I thought that both girls looked so elegant, with blue hydrangeas and gypsophila in their hair. 


I wore our family tiara, which my Mum also wore for her wedding, with my hair in a low chignon, and a veil. I was also lucky enough to be able to wear my grandmother's sapphire and diamond bracelet, and my Mum's diamond necklace for the evening.


The bouquets and buttonholes were done by Emma Tindley, my dressmaker. She really is a multi-talented lady!


I wanted to have a very rustic, country feel to all the flower arrangements and obviously wanted to use all blue, green and cream flowers, particularly hydrangeas. We used bunches of gypsophilia tied with blue ribbon for the pew ends, which is very inexpensive but looks so pretty! 


We used the church flower ladies to do all the arrangements and the archway of flowers and they really did the most fantastic job, we had so many comments on our flowers! 


Alex wore traditional morning suit, with a powder blue waistcoat, and a blue and green patterned tie. We bought ties for all our ushers, all in different blue and green animal patterns!




As Alex is in the army we were privileged enough to have a Guard of Honour made up of friends he had served with in Afghanistan - two Welsh Guardsmen and six Light Dragoons.












We had lots of DIY projects, including our confetti! Our airing cupboard became something of a confetti factory, as we dried lots of blue, green and cream petals. This doubled as decoration for the reception, as we sprinkled it over the hessian table runners.


Our wedding photographer was Kate Murrell Weddings, and she works in the photographic department of the hospital where my Dad works, and she does weddings at weekends. We felt at ease with her straight away, she did a fantastic job on the day and we love our photos!



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They Had The Time Of Their Lives



And she didn't carry a watermelon...

Accuse me of being a soppy Sally if you will but this piece reduced me to a blubbering idiot. I am not generally an emotional mess when it comes to scenes of love and romance but these two left me weak at the knees and watery at the eyes. My heart has not been replaced by a squishy pink weepy marshmallow and T.O.M. is not visiting at the moment but i do promise even the coldest bitches will feel a rising warmth in their ice cold hearts and may even experience a little ‘sweaty’ eye (wink, wink) when you watch this.

Since its release in 1987 Dirty Dancing has been a source of romantic ideology and iconography for girls and women the world over. It was THE modern fairytale of the twenty first century. You had Patrick Swayze as the sexy bad boy and Jennifer Grey, the quiet goody two shoes daddy’s girl whose forbidden love conquered all and even won over her dad at the end. It may possibly be the worlds favorite feel good love story, we’ve all seen it at least a dozen times haven’t we?? But it has left a generation of women with a delusional idea of romance and therefore prone to broken hearts because lets face it not every sexy bad boy has a heart like Johnny and not every forbidden love can find acceptance and you can be sure as hell that if you find this sexy bad boy that everyone loves or even just your lovable Joe Soap he’s not going to utter those heart melting words “Nobody puts Baby in the corner” and get down and dirty with some choreography so you can have the time of your life... Or will he???

Terra and Drake Otto tied the knot earlier this year and they treated their guests to an almost perfect performance of the iconic dance. I, like you, have seen you tube clips of this sort before and honestly it usually leaves me in knots laughing at the clumsy footwork, comical hip shaking and the inevitable wallop to the floor for both parties when it comes to the finale. This time however i was overwhelmed with weepy happiness for the loved up couple and a good measure of jealousy too. This girl was lucky enough to find a guy who was willing to put all that time and effort into making sure she had the time of her life. Now theres romance. Most of us will admit, or I will anyway, that when upon the rare occasion i think of ‘that day’, which is usually when another one of my friends are getting married, I have a tiny little dream that this could be my first dance with my sexy bad boy (hey a girl can dream!) but thats quickly quenched by the realization that no man is going to do this on his wedding day. No Irish man anyway! But Drake may just ave rekindled my faith in the male species.

So tell me am I going soft in my relatively old age? Did this make you weepy? Do you dream of this for your wedding day? Or am I just starved of romance? Well Patrick Swayze may have had Hungry Eyes but I’m starting to think that maybe I just have a Hungry Heart... Enjoy the romance!









My Top 5 Beauty Products For Your Wedding Day

{Posting by Julia Bowden, Before the Big Day's Hair & Make-up Expert} As a professional make-up artist, I'm always getting asked 'what is the best beauty brand?'. Sadly it's not that simple, because while one brand will make the best lipstick ever, their foundation won't rock my world. You have to pick and choose. Luckily for you, I'm the original product junkie, on a constant quest to find new and exciting lotions and potions. So while I do the testing, you can reap the rewards, and only buy the best for your wedding day. In my wedding beauty features for Before the Big Day I'll be keeping you up-to-date with all the latest hair and beauty innovations, so you can look your best on your wedding day. Follow me on Twitter for all the latest updates or email me here.


{Photo Credit} Julia Bowden's Wedding Hair & Make-up Work

To kick things off this time round, I just wanted to fill you in on the beauty products I can't shake. No matter how hard I try to innovate, I keep coming back to those old faithfuls. Georgia told me to come up with my Top 5 but I’ve got 7 {whoops…sorry Georgia}! Remember, this isn't just about your bridal make-up bag. In my view the following products are staple make-up investments for every girl. Not just for your wedding day, but for life!


1: Laura Mercier foundation Primer – smoothes your skin ready for foundation and makes it last all day {I promise}! I can't wear a full face of make-up without it. I'm officially addicted.
2: Chanel Vitalumiere Aqua Foundation - light and sheer, looks like real skin but fabulously light reflective with great natural coverage
3: Bobbi Brown: Pot Rouge in Pale Pink - for the original blushing bride look, very natural, lasts all day and breaths life into your face.
4: By Terry Touch Expert Advanced Under Eye Pen - From the lady who designed the famous Touch Eclat for YSL, this is similar in that it’s light reflective, but it also covers dark circles and plumps the skin around the eyes. An all-in-one dark-circle destroyer.
5: Yves Saint Laurent Volume Effet Faux Cils Luxurious Mascara – Instant false lash effect, no clogs and great longevity – can't argue with that!
6: Mac Blankety Lip Stick – A lovely nude lip colour that's so flattering and natural – it suits almost everyone.
7: Urban Decay Naked Eye Shadow Palette – A lovely range of shades for creating dramatic or subtle looks – a great all rounder palette you'll use time and time again.

I hope you enjoy them! Till next time xJB

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Introducing Alice Cowen Personal Training for Your Wedding-Ready Body

Brides looking to slim down and tone up for the wedding are in for a treat! Before the Big Day's Nutrition & Fitness Editor, Alice Cowen is back from three busy years in Mallorca, and now available for personal training in the UK. Alice is a secret weapon for her celebrity clients, as she's known to whip people into shape in just a couple of months. She's their go-to girl for red carpet emergencies, and the perfect person to get your bottom walking-down-the-aisle ready, and your tummy honeymoon-bikini-flat! She sorted me out before my wedding, and although I felt the pain, I've never felt more confident as I did on my big day. So if you're looking for a last-minute blast ahead of your winter wedding, or a more gradual long-term figure-change for the summer, then take a look at her website. Alice is based in Dorset, but comes up to London three days a week, and she's also available for Skype training.....and if you think you can get away with cheating on the squats via Skype, think again! This girl is strict! Read more about Alice on her Bootique blog.




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Edward Scissorhands Cuts Hollywoods Hair...




Kind of...


So last week Johnny Depp turned up for Sunday lunch at a pub in Westmeath and Pamela Anderson, Jennifer Lawrence and Jennifer Anniston all gave their famous locks the crop... So is there some connection between Edward Scissorhands gracing the shores of the Emerald Isle and the starlets new hair styles? Was his presence in a country whose heritage is saturated with mythology and magic messing with the stratosphere in epic hairline raising proportions and demonically compelling leading ladies the opposite side of the globe to get scissor happy with their locks??

That may be a far reaching analogy of fairytale proportions or maybe just a slightly sinister coincidence.... but too much of a coincidence perhaps to just let slide. Has the legendary and visionary Tim Burton created a cult following so strong that the reaches of reality have been warped creating a bridge between life as we know it and a parallel universe of all that is Burtonesque?? 

Edward Scissorhands himself cuts into a roast dinner in the midlands of Ireland, home of leprechauns, magic and folklore and a gate opens at hairdressers in California where stylists cut into the iconic tresses of Jen, Jen and Pam. Surely Buffy’s Giles could source a  mythological book that could explain such strange happenings but alas he was driven to retirement when the Angel spin off, spun off several spooky moons ago and it is left to mere mortals like us to explain, ignore or accept it as a mundane and un-extraordinary week in the lives of Hollywoods finest.  

For me the scenario was much too reminiscent of the dog grooming, hair cutting scene in the iconic movie to not try and find a substratal link between all of the events. But seeing as my theory is hinging on the paranormal and extra-terrestrial I may just have to leave it lie for now, at least until a corpse bride arises or a zombie dog apocalypse spawns after Frankenweenie is shown simultaneously across the globe. 






For now lets concentrate on the gracious and accommodating Johnny Depp who gladly posed for photos with fans who were also out for their Sunday lunch. He was meeting with Cillian Murphy, author JP Donleavy and director Bob Mitchel so fingers crossed we’ll be seeing more of him on our shores as talks of turning JP Donleavy’s novel The Ginger Man into a movie seem to be coming to fruition... Maybe its time I got back into wardrobe...





And the transformation of Barbed Wire Pamela Anderson from an aging blonde bombshell who has shed not only her hair but her dated trashy sexual image and has been reborn and recut as an elegant and much more striking lady. Men around the world may be disappointed but Gentlemen and women are astounded. The Ellen Degeneres Show got it right when Ellen introduced Pamela last week to the booming strains of Lady Gaga’s Applause... We applaud you Pamela Anderson!





Both of our favorite Jennifers have opted for the crop recently too. Jennifer Lawrence has been going through quite the hair transformation over the last year or so and to date this is my favorite look for her. Her new pixie crop really shows off her face and she seems to be quite happy with it too. 



While Jennifer Aniston has gone back to her bob. This time she opted for a graduated style which I’m hoping will be much like her last bob just shorter. As far as I’m concerned when it comes to her hair this lady can do no wrong! 




So be it mere coincidence or Johnny Depp’s magnetic influence the results of the unexplained sinister scissorhands epidemic are all for the better.  Would you agree? In conclusion only good things happen when Mr Depp comes to Ireland. So, Johnny if your out there, come back soon!!








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